Publishing White Noise

I feel like I have this internal conversation with myself. I think, ‘DiAnre, you share so much about yourself on certain places and with others’. It’s mainly because most of what I tell people and what I publish is my definition of ‘white noise’.

Let’s take the example of a class lecture. Depending on the class, and the instruction there’s a 50/50 chance you’re either listening or you’re not. There’s also a point in time where both sides tune out completely or you reach a point in the lecture where everything your professor says is ‘white noise’: you’re actively listening to what your professor is saying, but you’re not retaining it, and most likely, a fraction of what you’ve heard has been lost. That’s what happens when I talk about my life or personal things, or even normal things with others, with few exceptions. When I talk to people, they’re actively listening in that moment, but inwardly sort of turn off their ears and stop listening due to disinterest, something else has caught their attention, or they’ve got something to tell that happens to fit the conversation topic. When I write things on here and my blog, it is an electronic form of ‘white noise’. I know people are reading it, but when they read it they aren’t retaining anything enough to give a shit.

‘So DiAnre, why don’t you make people listen to you?’: Because after awhile, I kind of realized it’s nothing personal. When I talk to people, 9 times out of 10 says they’re going through something of their own. They’ve got exams, they’re still getting adjusted in school, they’re going through family problems, they’re getting over traumatic things. There’s so much going on in the human mind. Plus, the outlets I use always have a wide percentage of people who think ‘well, no matter what she says, I’ve experienced better/worse’ or ‘I could be reading something better’ or ‘who gives a shit?’ I mean. . . .we all do it. We’ve seen people write posts about themselves, stare at it and say, ‘this person has lost touch with all reality and belongs somewhere that includes padded rooms and nice white bottles with medication in them’ or ‘I could be reading a recipe on Pinterest’, but it’s that percentage that makes me so damn comfortable. My life is practically made of white noise, but a lot of the time I have friends that have their own problems, so I know that most of what I’m saying is going to be hitting a brick wall and they’re only going to care momentarily because they know I’ve been holding it (few exceptions, of course), but most of my friends, I don’t feel comfortable telling them because it’s something else for them to worry about on top of their everyday stress, no matter how small, so I talk about it through things like my blog and my dA journal because those are two outlets where I KNOW it’s pure white noise. Now, pure white noise is when you know people are passively looking at what you’ve written. At least with normal white noise, they can get some stuff out of it. PURE white noise is when they dismiss it because I’m not PewdiePie from YouTube. I’m not a form of major entertainment and I’m some 18 year old girl COMPLAINING about something that’s bothering me. It’s more fact than delusion, I couldn’t really make it up if I wanted to.

Even now, someone has reached the 5th sentence of this article and thought ‘I could be doing something else, my interest is lost. . .I wonder what’s for dinner. . .’ or something of that fashion. I admit, I should give leeway to those who are taking in and caring about both my opinion and myself. I appreciate those few. . .which I assumed was only one, but now is two (no rhyme intended). I think I have this mentality because I know how little an impact my words truly have on both the interwebs and in life. I haven’t made a big enough impression to really feel that there’s someone on this big blue planet besides my mother (Alex, you’re an exception) that thinks I’m the coolest thing since Gardettos. I don’t have the charisma, nor the intelligence, nor the bronze to really sit down and say I’m popular or spunky or innovative enough to breach the conscience mind of another. I like to play a pretend game with myself, thinking I’m some awesome cool person, but I’m no more interesting than the bags of iceburg lettuce my mom buys at the market. This isn’t a personal bash, it’s more of facts being presented and understanding being given. This blog is a wonderful example. Out of trillions of people there are two loyal readers of this blog. They’re absolutely beautiful people that voluntarily give their time to read my ramble: proof

Advertisements

2 thoughts on “Publishing White Noise

  1. ok, not easy to translate this in english but i try : you are what you believe to be. And therefore, people believe you are what yourself believe to be.
    For example : if you think you’re not interesting, then, when you will try to talk to somebody, unconsciously you will talk with the fear not to be listened, or to bore the people you want to talk to. Then what happens? the way you’ll speak will be reluctant, lacking self confidence and interest, and obviously this is what will hear the person.
    WE ARE WHAT WE BELIEVE WE ARE. If you think you’re ugly, you will look ugly because all your attitude will reflect this thought, without you have any conscience of it. And everything is in keeping with this.
    So here is my advice : if you want to be heard, act thinking you will be heard. Why the fuck would it be different?!!! there is no reason for it! What do you think is the difference between people managing and obtaining what they want, and people that don’t manage. The people that manage, they firmly believe in what they do and in their goals. They see themselves in a positive way. This is the difference. If you’re well in your mind, if you think you’re a smart and interesting person, then you’ll act in this way and people will see you like this. And it works for EVERYHTING. So now you have the explanation it’s up to you to act.

    1. I get what you’re saying and seeing that it was indeed hard to translate, you may have slightly missed the point I was trying to make. Although, you are right. I have the mentality that, I, myself am not an extremely interesting person. Doesn’t necessarily mean I think I’m extremely dull, just not interesting enough to necessarily hype a social network of this caliber (wordpress). This wasn’t a personal bash, I noted that also, but you are right. How you see yourself directly effects how you are shown to others (could be the reason for my lack of friends on campus. . . I honestly don’t want friends that bad lol). Understand, though, that this article had to do mainly with the idea that I have a personal cushion on the internet BECAUSE of that kind of unsaid passive attention that a lot of my blog and other forms of my social media sites get because I’m not really advocating myself with the charisma that most do. I’m not pointing that fact that I don’t do this to emphasize the amount of loathing I have or even a ripple in self-esteem, I think I’m merely saying (or was trying to say lol) that by my lack in certain areas, I’ve been able to create a personal thing that I know would not be widely paid attention to, which holds comfort for me in many ways. Thank you for the advice though, I will start to try and apply that to myself. I do have low self-esteem, so the mentality that you’ve given will help me boost that. Thank you

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s